Wednesday, March 23, 2005

you have impeccable timing

my husband was looking through some old notebooks last night and came across something interesting. when i graduated from high school, i was valedictorian and consequently was forced to give a speech at graduation. last night, he found the poem upon which i based the entire speech. there is apparently a large discussion on who the actual author is (please see this link for more information) but whomever wrote it, i think it is a powerful poem.

Success

What is success?
To laugh often and much,
To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children,
To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betraryal of false friends,
To appreciate beauty,
To find the best in others,
To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition,
To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived,
This is to have succeeded.

i thought now was a quite fortunate time to rediscover this poem. as most of you who read this know, i'm having difficulty with the fact that i don't have a job yet. these few lines helped remind me that i am more than the job i have. i can be successful without a flashy, high-paying job. there are many things much more important in life than employment and a house. let's hope i can keep this focus for a little while anyway.

2 Comments:

At 11:18 AM, Blogger legally intoxicated said...

nice post. i also had to give a silly speech at hs grad; mine was about how all religious people are idiots. i had a very ill-attended graduation party as a result.

the valedictorian of my college class was perhaps the meanest person i have ever met. she got up there and bitched about the evils of being #1, and how she had studied so hard all her life--for what? i hated how much i identified with her.

whether or not you eventually go through hell learning that success is something different (i kinda did) it's good to get that memo at some point. i always hated children. funny to see now that that's one mark of a successful person. and i'm still struggling to get kids to ignore my bitter streak and start to like me.

 
At 9:24 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

The message of my valedictorian speech was that just because things are different doesn't mean they're bad. So take that, you small-minded, small town hicks. Yeah, I'm sure it was really effective.

Anyway, here's a similar poem that I've enjoyed through the years:

To live content with small means.
To seek elegance rather than luxury, and refinement rather than fashion.
To be worthy not respectable, and wealthy, not rich.
To study hard, think quietly, talk gently, act frankly.
To listent to stars, birds, babes, and sages with open heart.
To bear all cheerfully, do all bravely, await occasions, hurry never.
In a word, to let the spiritual, unbidden, and unconscious grow up through the common.
This is to be my symphony.

William Ellery Channing

 

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